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Love Analysis! All About the ‘NCIS’ Cast’s Real-Life Romances

Wilmer Valderrama and Amanda Pacheco Rhinesmith arrive for the State Dinner at the White House on May 23, 2024 in Washington, DC. U.S. President Joe Biden is hosting Kenyan President William Ruto and his wife Rachel Ruto for a state visit, which included a bilateral meeting, a joint press conference and state dinner. Ruto’s visit is the first official state visit to the White House by a leader from an African country since 2008 / Actor Rocky Carroll (R) and his wife Gabrielle Bullock pose at the CW/Showtime/CBS Television TCA Party at Boulevard3 on July 18, 2008 in Los Angeles, California.
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Ever wonder what the cast of NCIS is up to when they’re not filming the intense procedural?

Well, luckily for them, their home lives seem to be a little bit more relaxed. With almost all of them in happy, long-term relationships, they head home to their loved ones when they’re done filming the CBS drama.

Have you ever wondered who are the other halves of Wilmer Valderrama, Gary Cole, and Diona Reasonover? If so, then scroll down below to get up to speed on their partners.

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Wilmer Valderrama and Amanda Pacheco Rhinesmith arrive for the State Dinner at the White House on May 23, 2024 in Washington, DC. U.S. President Joe Biden is hosting Kenyan President William Ruto and his wife Rachel Ruto for a state visit, which included a bilateral meeting, a joint press conference and state dinner. Ruto’s visit is the first official state visit to the White House by a leader from an African country since 2008.
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Wilmer Valderrama

Engaged since 2020, Valderrama, aka Torres, and Amanda Pacheco have hit plenty of milestones together. Both of them became first-time parents with the birth of their daughter, Nakano Oceano.

Often attending events together, such as the White House Holiday Reception in 2024, the couple certainly isn’t camera shy. Yet, Valderrama and Pacheco prefer to keep the details of their personal life private.

Actor Rocky Carroll (R) and his wife Gabrielle Bullock pose at the CW/Showtime/CBS Television TCA Party at Boulevard3 on July 18, 2008 in Los Angeles, California.
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Rocky Carroll

Rocky Carroll‘s wife, Gabrielle Bullock, isn’t part of the entertainment industry. She is a renowned architect for the firm Perk & Will, where she became the first African American and first woman to rise to the position of Managing Director. He’s played Vance on NCIS for decades.

Both are impressive in their fields, but the two keep a low public profile. Occasionally they share their joy with the world. The long-standing couple has been married since 1996. They have one daughter together, Elissa Carroll.

Keith Andreen and Katrina Law attend the Elton John AIDS Foundation's 30th Annual Academy Awards Viewing Party on March 27, 2022 in West Hollywood, California.
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Katrina Law

Katrina Law, who plays Knight, never has the need for another professional photographer as her husband Keith Andreen is happy to use his talent to capture his wife. The actor and photographer have been married since 2013 and love to share snapshots of their time together.

Law and Andreen have proven to have the same values, often supporting charities, and advocating for good causes. The couple has one kid, a daughter who was born in December 2018. They have made a joint decision to keep their child’s life as private as possible.

Diona Reasonover with wife Patricia Villetto
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Diona Reasonover

The creative duo met each other on the comedy scene and quickly fell in love. With Diona Reasonover being a talented actor on NCIS and her wife, Patricia Villetto, an accomplished writer/producer, the two are surely bound to shake up the entertainment scene. They tied the knot in 2018 and have been thrilled about that decision ever since. Reasonover has often credited Villetto to be an immense source of inspiration and support.

Brian Dietzen with wife Kelly Dietzen
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Brian Dietzen

Happily married for over two decades, Brian Dietzen, aka Palmer, and his wife, Kelly Dietzen, are happy to share their bliss with the world. Not divulging much about their relationship, they occasionally share glimpses of their experiences. The actor has, however, emphasized the role his wife has played in his career. They have two kids together.

Michelle Knapp and Gary Cole attend a salute to the NCIS universe celebrating
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Gary Cole

Gary Cole, who joined NCIS in Season 19, and his wife, Michelle Knapp, met each other after the passing of his first wife, Teddi Siddall, in 2018. Siddall had filed for divorce a year before her passing. The two hit it off and tied the knot in 2021. Meeting later in life, they don’t have kids together, but Knapp is involved in the life of Cole’s daughter, Mary. The couple has a relatively private life, but they often attend events together.

Actor Sean Murray and Carrie James attend The Hyde Away, hosted by Republic Records & SBE, presented by Hudson and bareMinerals during Coachella on April 15, 2017 in Thermal, California.
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Sean Murray

Both Sean Murray and his estranged wife, Carrie James, always intended to prioritize their family life ahead of their careers, and this panned out for them for many years, considering they had a tight bond and thriving professional occupations. Murray as McGee on NCIS while James is a teacher-turned-entrepreneur. But in April 2024, James filed for divorce. Murray and James have two kids, Cay Ryan and River James.